Beautiful, Is The Workplace Easy To Attract Jealousy?

Beauty is easy to attract people to hate and hate. To be exact, it should be a little girl in the workplace.

Let's start with a few conclusions.

1, beauty does not bring homosexual hostility.

What brings hostility is that young and beautiful.

2, it is regrettable that such hostility can not be avoided (one step at a time) and can only be reduced to time.

3, no matter how you choose, as long as you stick to principles and maintain consistency in behavior, others will not blame you too much.

First, why does beauty not bring hostility, but youth and beauty bring malice?

In the workplace, people have many roles; for young and beautiful girls, this role is: workplace beauties.

What is the role like?

What about it?

She is young (compared with other senior female employees in the company); she is beautiful; when she enters the company, there are many people asking her which department, where she graduated, her age and her origin, and even her blood type constellation; she is often surrounded by male colleagues and enjoys more internal resources of her company; she is not very experienced in business, and may need to ask questions to others at any time. At this time, a lot of men come around to answer questions, but others are too busy to give you a hand.

If only she were a single girl again, it would be even worse.

Right?

These actions, all of these results, have nothing to do with the girl herself, but envy is hated.

Do not say that the elderly are the same sex, that is, boys of the same age, will feel that young and beautiful little girl will receive more attention and tilt in the workplace.

So, conversely, a 30 year old married, well trained, extremely beautiful woman can cause hostility?

Obviously not.

They are mature enough to grasp the yardstick of getting along with others; they are well versed in the workplace and even suffer from their youth; they are not little girls; they are strong women in the workplace; they are skilled in business, and do not need help from others to contribute independently. They can even guide others, even small ones.

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Such a woman will only make people pleasing to the eye, and will not attract hostility.

Hostile is the workplace beauty, beautiful and young.

Two, why is this hostility unavoidable?

When X was young, just like you are so popular in the company today, you say, she snack vinegar, what is so unreasonable?

Yes, it's human nature.

When you enter this company, your innate quality will occupy, occupy and occupy this role.

This role is a jealous and jealous character.

Therefore, the conclusion is: there is no way to avoid hostility.

The way is to label.

But how easy is it to label it? You enjoy the treatment of the company's little red man, attracting countless eyeballs, and then turn gorgeous into a manager. You have enjoyed many resources of the workplace beauties, and then just like the performance of A instantly promoted?

A lot of things, you have to give time.

Then, during this period of time, you can take out your professional ability, take out your steady temperament, give up the opportunities of being popular and caring, and learn to take responsibility and finish the work one by one, so that you can be prepared for your pformation into a manager.

Some points for attention:

A, accept the reality I mentioned above, realize that this reality brings you a lot of benefits, take it easy, but don't be complacent.

B, I realized that the role of the workplace little girl, the little girl in the workplace, has many natural disadvantages. For example, we can not appoint a little girl to be a manager, even if it is only a post of two or three people.

Even short term projects are difficult.

C, realize that at most 3 years, young and pretty girls will take over your role, so those good and bad will come and leave.

D, although boys will naturally tilt your resources to you, it will be better for you. Although you can help them in your work and life, they will make you want to push things more efficiently, but it is still the first lady to ask for help.

E, if possible, establish a relationship with the older women (10 + +) in the company.

F, strictly avoid competition with any woman.

To facilitate understanding, for example, for example, a group of five or six year old women who are big enough to discuss skin care, you must not go up to discuss how to say how I do.

Your 96 year old sister has to wash her face every day. It's okay for people to charge hundreds of pieces of mask every day. Aren't you a nuisance? If you have to interrupt, you can say that XX is really nice, delicate and white.

Never do what you do on a topic.

G, do not expose the sense of superiority in age.

Let me take an extreme example: if I were your age, I would thank you for your appearance, which seems flattering, but unacceptable to senior ladies.

If you really don't know what to do, listen to me: never talk about age.

H, do not look for male colleagues to make girlfriends, do not look for reputable girl colleagues to make girlfriends.

I, it is better to call a female job, not to be called a sister.

Unless everyone else calls her sister.

J, if you have a very good chance, tell your male colleagues that you are not too good for me. I will be very difficult.

Remember, girls' performance is not the key. Boys' performance is the key. Beauty is not the key, but youth is the key.

Four, summarize.

Everyone should have seen it before. What I have been emphasizing is not beauty, but youth.

Why?

Some people say that there are no ugly women, only lazy women.

Nowadays, white-collar women, more or less, know how to pack themselves.

Especially those girls who will show hostility to young and beautiful girls will pick themselves up.

These girls do not think that the younger sister is more beautiful than me. In their hearts, they are only lost to time.

You guys think she is beautiful, not because she is young.

When your mother was young, you were not like a group of flies around.

If a young woman is ten years younger, it will be a hundred times stronger than this little girl movie.

It is not so unbearable and not so gloomy in this matter.

In fact, they are all girls' little emotions, and I use the word "hostility" all over the place, and I think they are overweight.

They are nothing more than new, old, old, young girls.

I hope that now you, the little girl in the workplace, can give more understanding to the envy, jealousy and hatred of the senior ladies.

I hope that now you, the workplace beauty, can be more appreciative and tolerant to the younger workplace sisters in the future.

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