Taboo And Difference Between Workplace Men And Women

　 John Grey In "men from Mars, women from Venus" wrote: "men and women are like different planets, speaking different languages, having different emotional needs, thinking in different ways of thinking." So is the emotional world, and is it not so?

1, the wiser and weaker a woman is, the wiser and bolder he is.

Smart women are usually sensitive and sensitive to external stimuli. reaction Particularly intense. When a woman feels other people's bad mood, pressure and certain risks, she may be depressed and uneasy, but retreat in the workplace. Cleverness is easy to make a woman successful, and it also makes her intolerant of stress. On the contrary, men's intelligence and intelligence enable them to succeed in their careers, thus making them more confident and bolder. The weakness of women because of intelligence is actually rooted in the patriarchal culture of "women's talent and virtue". Even today, smart women are very popular in the workplace, but in family life. field Cleverness is not always regarded as the advantage of women.

Women's intelligence is the result of the accumulation of knowledge and the evolution of information age. We can no longer return to the past when women do not smell the window. Only when women accept and adapt to their intelligence will they have a bright future and a bright future.

2, women get anxious because they get it, and men are anxious because they don't get it.

Men are prone to conquer anxiety. When they have not yet got a job or achieve a purpose, anxiety has forced them to do everything possible to fight for it, but once they get it, they are careless and relaxed and relaxed. Women are the opposite. When she doesn't get it, she is handsome, and once she gets it, she starts to worry. Women are not afraid of getting lost. They are afraid of getting lost.

In terms of gender, the typical psychological manifestation is that when a girl is in love, a girl is a proud princess. Once married, a woman is worried about a man's disloyalty and can't tie her husband to his belt. The psychological reason is that women are used to guarding, and men are used to attacking. Only when women are more independent in psychology and personality can they have a stable and harmonious mood.

3, the younger and more valuable a woman is, the more mature and charming a man is.

This state is related to the reproductive age of men and women. The younger the woman is, the easier it is to give birth, and the male's reproductive cycle is much longer than that of women. When a young man meets a young woman, she may have an instinctive impulse, which is the impulse of life. In career, the more mature men are, the easier it is to succeed. Therefore, successful men and young women are attracted to each other.

However, older women do not need to lose. When beauty fading, wisdom grows. Wisdom and beauty are two important components of women's charm, and wisdom is longer and more reliable.

4, the more successful a woman's career is, the more dependent on her emotions. The more successful a man is, the more independent he will be.

We can see from our examples that successful women are often apologetic to men. A successful wife may feel guilty because she has no time to cook for her husband, and the term "strong woman" is usually equivalent to the unfortunate marriage. The motive of women's pursuit of career may be for their husbands and children, but once a woman's career is successful, she will lose her self-confidence in psychology. But men feel good about themselves because of their success, because many men regard success as their first pursuit of life.

Therefore, to become a happy woman, it is necessary to be persistent and natural in career, and to be independent and confident in life.

5, women often play the weak, and men tend to live in the strong.

Women's weakness is a weapon for women's self-protection.

Women often use weak points to arouse men's strong consciousness to get men's protection, which is also a strategy of weakness and strength. Seeking protection is a woman's nature. Being protected is the dignity of a woman, while men are willing to play the role of protecting God. It may be because Chinese traditional ideas believe that women are the appendages of men, and women are possessed and controlled by men. At this point, women go with the flow and restrict their strength by their weakness.

Attention should be paid to male and female differences in workplace communication.

1. According to research data, the average time of narration is 3 minutes for men and 13 minutes for men.

2, men prefer to interrupt in conversation and interrupt others.

3, in conversation, women prefer to concentrate on the other side of the conversation, while men only seek to understand each other's language.

4, in the process of conversation, men focus on controlling the content of conversation to show their strength, while women focus on maintaining the continuity of dialogue.

5, women are more likely to tell their thoughts to others than men. Men who think they are strong are less likely to expose themselves.

6, the way women talk is more lively than men, while men only focus on the expression of language power.

7, generally speaking, women have more chances to show their smiles than men.