What Should I Pay Attention To In My Colleagues' Talk?

     在办公室里，同事每天见面的时间最长，谈话可能涉及到工作以外的各种事情，“讲错话”常常会给你带来不必要的麻烦。同事与同事间的谈话，如何掌握分寸就成了人际沟通中不可忽视的一环。　　

Office is not a place for mutual complaints.

There are many talkative and straight people who like to pour bitter water on their colleagues.

Although such conversation is full of humanity, it can make you friendly, but research shows that less than 1% of people can keep secrets.

Therefore, when your personal crisis and lovelorn and extramarital affairs happen, you'd better not complain everywhere, and don't confuse your colleagues with "Friendliness" and "friendship", so as not to become the focus of attention in the office.

    办公室里最好不要辩论　　

Some people like to argue. They must be better than others.

If you are really interested and are good at debating, then you are advised to leave this talent outside the office. Otherwise, even if you speak better than the other, you are actually damaging his dignity, and the other person may hate it from time to time. Maybe one day he will return it to you in some way.

    不要成为“耳语”的散播者　　

Whispering is what we say behind someone's back. As long as there are many places, there will be gossip.

Sometimes, you may become careless person carelessly; sometimes, you may also be the object of others' attack.

These whispers, such as leaders like who, who can eat the most, who has scandal, and so on, just like noise, affect people's work mood.

If you are smart, you should know how to say it bravely.

Some people like to share happiness with others, but it involves information about your job, such as winning an important client, secretly giving you a bonus, etc. It's best not to show off to others.