Mastering The Principles Of Communication Is More Competitive.

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In fact, it is not simple. At least when communicating with superiors, we should master the following principles.

Especially speaking frankly about your feelings, feelings, pains, thoughts and expectations, but it is definitely not criticism, blame, complaint, attack.

Criticism, reproach, complaint and attack are all executioners of communication, which only aggravate things.

Only if you respect each other can you have communication. If the other person does not respect you, you should ask the other party appropriately.

Otherwise, it's difficult to communicate.

A bad word hurts a man.

Communication in China is often unpleasant. It is neither clear nor clear. Especially in the mood, it is easy to be impulsive and irrational. For example, the noisy couple, the parents whose parents are enemies, the subordinates who have been in the long standing.

In particular, it is not easy to make emotional and impulsive decisions in mood. It is very easy to make things irreversible and repent.

The only reason for this is that there is no result and no better result. Therefore, this communication is useless.

To admit that I am wrong is the disinfectant of communication, and thaw, improve and pform the problem of communication.

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He said he won the Nobel prize in the end, not because he had worked for 11 years as a sweeper, but because he had a "broom spirit" to persist in his own business.

A young man failed in his three job search after graduating from college.

One day, he passed by a temple and saw the master Abbot sitting in the temple, holding a string of beads continuously chanting.

So the young man came up and asked, "would you mind giving me directions, master?"

The abbot replied, "if you are young, I hang on to my old age. You should have directed me."

The young man said, "I am young and strong, I want to get a job, but I have been rejected for a long time."

The abbot entered the inner room and took out a broom and a dustpan. He said, "when I first came to the temple, the first task the master gave me was to clean the yard, to be clean and spotless."

There is a difference between sweeping the floor and sweeping the world, but how can the opportunity to sweep the world be readily available?

The workplace is not a battlefield. It is more like a playground, a place for practicing ability. Every worker is a broom on the playground. He is responsible for cleaning up every corner of the playground.