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The Boss In The Elevator Paid Attention To Etiquette.

2008/12/18 13:37:00 41965

To work in tall buildings in cities, elevators are indispensable means of pportation, many cities.

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They all reflected embarrassment in taking the elevator, such as being afraid of meeting their superiors.

This phenomenon has attracted the attention of psychological experts.

　　 案例：

"A few minutes later, a few minutes earlier, you won't have to take an elevator with the boss.

What do you want to say?

This is Lin Ling's inner monologue.

Alone with the leader in the narrow elevator.

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They seem to be suffering too; leaders seem embarrassed and have nothing to say.

During this period, there was only a few words, followed by silence, or staring at the floor display screen.

　　分析：

social psychology

Studying the psychological space of people, the distance between strangers should be kept at 1.2 meters away, so as not to cause people's uneasiness.

Between half a meter and 1.2 meters, it is the distance between friends. The nearest distance between relatives and lovers is within 0.5 meters.

If there is no corresponding relationship between people, the rush to break through the corresponding distance will cause people's psychological reactions such as uneasiness, resentment and alert.

The space distance inside the elevator has already pulled people to the distance between friends. It is normal to feel uneasy at the peak of work.

If you meet your boss at this distance, your usual discomfort, fear and discomfort will be magnified.

The fear of sharing the elevator with the boss should be attributed to the fear of authority.

Such people may have strict parents, usually by pulling away the space distance to avoid the purpose of authority. Now the space distance is narrowed, and naturally there is no escape from authority and psychological barriers.

What he faced was his own psychological problems.

In some

Foreign enterprise

In a company with strict management, there is less communication between supervisors and subordinates. When subordinates meet with superiors, they will have a nervous reaction. This is normal.

如何消除这种反应呢？

Take the initiative to greet politely, so as not to avoid

Boss

I feel that my dignity is impaired.

Expressed

politeness

After that, leave the rest of the development to your boss, especially when you and your boss take the ladder alone, so you can respectfully let your boss continue to lead the space.

Another way is to divert attention, think about other things, count the number.

In addition to psychological adjustment, there are still some ways. For example, when people are many, if time is ample, the floors can still be accepted, so they can walk stairs, which can reduce weight and save a lot of trouble.

Or go to the early morning, lunch time to avoid the boss to eat time, as long as a little attention, can reduce the embarrassment brought by elevator.

Editor: vivi